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So what happens ?

-When you plan to do certain tasks within a certain period of time only to realize the deadline is either here or past and you didn’t do the assignment.

-When you promise your friend(s),family member(s) or spouse that you are committed to fulfilling a promise but only to realize that you didn’t do your math well before you gave your word,how do you proceed from here ?

-When you promised your children that if they scored the right marks and improved on their grades,you will do anything they ask of,and when they keep their part of the deal and come to you with what you had asked them to do,your face now turns pale,sulky and starts looking for reasons and excuses why you can’t keep your word. So,what happens then with them and you?

-When you didn’t have that wife,husband and struggled alot and appeared miserable, but when you met her/him,your promises were over the roof how your were going to be there for them come rain come sunshine,till death do you part,but no sooner things started shaping well on your side excuses and reasons increased daily why you think you made a mistake or there is too much doubt with this relationship now.So,what changed for sure?

-Last but not least, when you were jobless,only knew one meal in a day,lived in that single iron sheet room with no basic amenities, and walked almost with a mental breakdown, but decided to seek prayer(s) at the church and you made all the vows to God on how if He remembered you,you would stay in His house and tithe faithfully to the church because it stood with you in time of need,but as soon as the Lord laid His favor and grace on you and things started turning green on your side,you quickly forgot that it’s only fools who make vows and fail to fulfill them and God is never pleased with them.So, did you lie to man or God and when did God become your contemporary to play around with?

My final question to you now is

What is really making us do all these kind(s) of somersault, foolish things and how do we expect by any chance that our integrity and character won’t be questioned by the very people whom we first portrayed ourselves to as keepers of our words and actions?

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Half-way through with the Year!

So what do you think could be the issue here? I am glad you have asked that question and i will try to explain the problem.At the start of the year,most likely they never sat down to make a list of what they wanted to do,the prioritize of what needed to be done first and what follows next and going on,the time frame when each was to be achieved,the key steps to follow in executing them and finally who was to oversee all these.These are very important issues that must be taken in seriously if one is to do something of substance and fulfilling by the close of the year .

I am sure that there are many people out there who are wondering how the year has moved so fast and yet can’t precisely point out with certainty of what they have accomplished so far.

You can salvage the remaining part of the year and make it productive,and embark on a determined mission to turn your loses into gains and by the end of the year ,you would realize that you are not where you were before and this will be a plus to your account as you come to the close of the year .

 My word of advice to you just incase you are stuck and have become not so good productive learn to -Discipline,Discipline,Discipline yourself and make very realistic and simple goals and start the Journey today!

All the best and see you on the last day of December to take stock of your progress.